David, for his part, even after he had unburdened himself to Samuel, immediately goes to see Jonathan at court, while the Saul was delayed at Naioth, and they comfort each other. And David says – and it's almost unbelievable to read this – ‘I cannot understand Jonathan, why your father is attacking me.
Peter says, ‘Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you: 13 But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ's sufferings; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy’ (1 Peter 4:12-13). Believers must view the world and all that happens in their lives through the lens of God’s word. Although we would all naturally like to have rest from trials, God knows that that would not be good for us, and rest in this world does not last long. It would be too easy for us to say in our hearts, ‘This world is not such a bad place after all’, and we would start to put roots down here. Trials have many benefits, but they can only be handled properly if we see them for what they are: evidence that we live for now in a spiritually hostile environment, in which the devil stirs up opposition to us, and we are obliged to battle our way through to heaven.
If David can stumble, how much more can we! We think we can stand, and we skip our times of prayer and devotion and love to the Lord, and we leave off processing all our circumstances by appealing to him, by putting ourselves in his keeping, in his hand, doing his bidding, keeping his law. If we sidestep the reading and study of the Scripture, leave out gathering with God's people and hearing exhortation and ministry, we are going to be in trouble.