But there is another kind of widow. ‘She that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.
It could apply to some of the widows in the ancient church, but does it also apply to some Christians who are not widows? You are formal believers. The world is not dead for you. You need this world. You need the pleasures you can get from it; you need it very much. Pleasure here is the clue to whether the world is still alive in your heart or not. And here is a basis for self-examination.