It is negative, but we must consider what Paul says about the depth of our alienation. Let us never forget it how much we owe to Christ.
And I found this very early in the Christian life, not long after I was saved and witnessing to different people. I remember at the same time having both a man and a woman who were nominal worshippers of God. Well they were not converted. And when I tried to go further with them in witness, I made a discovery. First of all the lady. She was very charming. She was middle-aged and kindly and pleasant. She thought she believed in God, but as soon as we started speaking about sin and the need for forgiveness and conversion, suddenly she became very brittle, and from brittle she became furious and enraged at any suggestion that she was a sinner and was cut off from God. That kind of God, a God who is holy, who requires repentance and must provide a Saviour to die for us: that was horrific to her, that was insulting.
Imagine, a man goes home. His wife loves him. She has got everything prepared as a surprise for him. He goes home, she has finished work, she gets home first, sets everything up for him. He arrives, he does not notice her. He does not look at her. He does not speak to her. He ignores her. To him she is not there. He gets what he wants, moves around, but cuts her dead. How hurt she would be.