Now follows a list of pairs of purposes under heaven, events of profound significance for individual men and women, which are determined by heaven above, but over which we have little or no control. Heaven does not tell us why it has fixed the boundaries of our lives where it has, but God knows all things and though we cannot see him, we are subject to his decisions and we cannot alter what he has decreed for us.
Our situation under heaven is deeply humbling: to think that we are unable to influence the most significant milestones in our lives, but must simply submit to them. This is not said to comfort us. It is humbling in a real way, and not like the celebrities who declare themselves to be humbled to receive a certain honour conferred on them. It renders us powerless in the things we care most about – an intensely uncomfortable position for human beings to be in. Understanding will only come when we seek God’s face to see the meaning of our lives within his purposes. We cannot manufacture purpose for ourselves but we must look up to our Creator and Redeemer. Life has meaning for the Christian because he has been chosen by God from eternity.
Some see a secondary meaning in these pairs. They see two lessons in the passage. The first lesson is that you need God or else you will live a very predictable life. The second is about how to come to God. Solomon was a poet and skilled at setting down proverbs or parables. We can equally take this passage, it is argued, as a series of spiritual events. There is a time to be born again. You seek the Lord and say, I need him. I need a new life. I need the Spirit of God to bring my soul to life so that I know God, I know Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour. There is a time to die because, before this birth, there must come a death to sin and to the old life. We must pray, ‘Lord give me new character.’ Continuing in the same theme, there is a time to plant: God will plant new understanding. There is a time to pluck up old sins, to kill old opinions and ambitions which were just for me. There is a time to be healed and have warts of character removed. In this way, Solomon’s words are seen as a riddle with a spiritual meaning. There is a time to weep about how I have offended God by my life and all things I have done that were contrary to his commandments. I will experience a time to laugh in happiness because God gives me an eternal hope. I will mourn the old life and rejoice in the new. I must come to Christ and believe in him who came to earth, to bear immeasurable suffering for his people. He is the Saviour who died for sinners and he has purchased the right to make you acceptable to God. It is a time for total change.