We are held far more responsible for the latter, having very little control over the former. Outward beauty is not something to be despised and those who are given it should thank God for it. But it is passing away and even before the end of life it begins to fade, while the inward person of the Christian is renewed day by day.
Rebekah was a virgin. She had kept herself in purity and mastered her own desires. How highly is that spirit to be valued in a woman that makes her want to keep herself pure for the husband of God’s choice. She will be his alone and all that she has to give will be saved for him.