The ruse was successful, in as much as Bilhah bore a son. This is the first mention of the Lord by Rachel.
It is a terrible perversion of prayer, when God is made to be simply the vehicle of our justification, that is, the justification of our ungodly and unrepented of actions. Yet this is so common. Instead of men and women measuring themselves by God’s standards. he is forced to adapt himself to theirs. They seek the moral high ground by having God on their side. This way of thinking becomes a pattern, especially for those who are religious only in a nominal sense. Religion serves a purpose in their lives, but it is not to bring them to know God; it is to justify all their ungodly behaviour.
If we backslide then God is there even in it. He will keep his promises towards us, but the Christian life which is meant to be a life of joy will contain much sorrow and pain. This is the experience of backsliding. God will not make it an easy experience for us, for he is driving us back to himself again in repentance. God can be blessing our family and we are not involved because of our sin; we are out of it.