It is now ten or eleven years after Jacob’s return to Canaan. there had been the meeting with Esau his brother, and now he has been there all these years.
There are many pastoral lessons in these chapters, because the family of Jacob – just as the family of Abraham and of Isaac – was a type, a foreshadowing of the church of Jesus Christ. The events that took place, the things that happened, their rewards of faith, their punishments for evildoing and disobedience – these things all bear lessons for us. They are not the same as the New Testament church, of course not. They are very much a mixed multitude, and many of them are not believers, are not sincere, as we shall see in this narrative, but they are a type.
Teenage years are years of discovery, and parents need to have prepared their children to cope with the rebellious inclinations that will arise, well in advance. The child is being trained for adulthood when they will make their own judgment s about what is right and what is wrong and their own decisions. The parent must gradually hand over the reins of power to the child. Nevertheless the parent sees dangers more keenly than the child, and must take into account of the degree of wisdom possessed by the child, and intervene or not as is appropriate. There seems to have been little intervention in the case of Dinah. Somebody in the family must have known what she was doing and ought to have stopped her.
After conversion, we can lose our way with our vows. We come to the Lord; we see what Christ has done on Calvary for his people. We are convicted of sin; we yield our lives to him; we promise to give him ourselves entirely. We pledge ourselves to him; we repent of sin; we abandon our worldly idols and we make our vows. But then we get used to the Christian walk, our vows can slip out of mind and we become more casual. There may be all kinds of things we once determined we would never do, and things which we long to do and yet we have not done them and we are not making the greatest effort to do them. This is a story of vows deferred and all kinds of problems and difficulties which arise.