It is one sad thing about Jacob that he allowed idolatry to persist in his family. We do not believe for a moment that he had any idols, any strange gods, himself, but he knew his family had them, and he doesn't seem to have done anything to stop it, until this great crisis.
Let's hope that that was for some, if not for all, a real act of repentance, because real repentance certainly involves the destruction of idols, the things that were not right: the conduct, the objects. When you come to Christ you destroy all; they must go, never to be laid hands on again.
Jacob refers to the time of God’s appearance at Bethel as the day of his distress. God was with him in the way that he went, a way of flight from his murderous brother. That appearance and God’s promise to him was pure grace in his eyes. He was truly an unworthy man, and yet God had, for reasons he could not understand, had mercy on him. This was such an important time that he remembered it as one of the great milestones in his life. It is good for us to have our own personal memorials before the Lord, especially those connected with great changes in our spiritual pilgrimage. They are times of rededication and encouragement.