Jacob sees that he cannot hold out any longer. He is going to risk losing the whole family to starvation unless he allows this to take place.
Jacob commits all into God’s hands in prayer, as well as taking practical steps, but not without trepidation. Doubt is mixed with faith. He ought to know that God’s promise to keep him and his seed (Genesis 35:9-12) means that all his family will be protected. We have to learn not to let our hearts imagine the worst. Faith must put a check on fears, and tell us that God is faithful to his promise, that he cares for us, and does not let hard experiences come because he is indifferent to our happiness.
How good a sign is honesty, especially when it costs us something. The righteous man loves honesty more than gain. He would rather have a good name, than obtain riches which do not belong to him. God has created the earth, and the eighth commandment – ‘Thou shalt not steal’ – implies the God gives legitimacy to private ownership.
In our integrity we must examine our own motive in all that we do. He who fears God is very careful not to use unequal weights, but to examine himself with the same scrutiny that God will use. No other standard is valid. Righteousness is a comfort to the righteous man, but when our hearts approve what we do, we do not boast but give all credit to the Lord. We also are to try to convince others of our sincerity by every means possible, but when we have done this and still failed, we can have peace before God if not before men.