God has secret plans of his people in Egypt, which they would never have thought of or expected. How can our guidance be based on so-called sanctified common sense alone, when God has surprise turns in the road ahead of us which we would never have thought of? How is common sense going to discover the right way? Jacob had to make the decision to go.
We do no major thing in life without the sanction of the Lord. Some attempt to reduce this to absurdity: ‘Should we seek the Lord’s guidance for the breakfast cereal we eat in the mornings?’ There is a distinction between major and minor things; we seek guidance for the major things, for all the crossroads of life. Of course the Lord wants us to grow in wisdom, but when it comes to the major things, our wisdom can never afford to take over from the direction of the Lord. Forty to fifty years ago no Christian doubted that God had a specific will for our lives, but since the 1980s this has been abandoned. Now it is said that God wants maturity and uses your own wisdom. Major Christian teachers fall for this. Seeking God’s guidance through dreams or voices or random text plucked from Scripture is a foolish thing to do, but this is presented as if it was the only alternative to making all your own decisions without consulting the Lord, and doing what pleases you. Of course we don’t believe in dreams and special words from God, but Jacob is our example here.
How do you seek guidance? Firstly, we clear the decks. We remove selfish desires or fears and clear them out – they must not be the basis of our decisions. Next, we weigh the principles of Scripture which bear on the decision. We are not looking for a sounding board, but we consult also those Scripture which challenge what we are doing – there must be no self-deceit in this. Then we pray. We pray, but with an attitude that is ready for God to lead us in whatever way he chooses. We do not decide what to do without him and come to him to approve our preferences. Oh, if I could have the blessing of God about every major decision. If we are genuine, then we may be sure that God will sharpen us in our decision making: he may guide us circumstantially, or may give unease about a wrong way of proceeding. So we are not asking in a lucky charm manner.
It is a great cause of peace of mid to know that we are in the Lord’s will. We have sought his guidance about the great issues of life – the church we belong to, the place we live, the spouse we marry, the job we do, and other important things also. We did no proceed on our own but stopped to ask God what he would have us to do, and prayed earnestly about it.