When the nation had finished mourning for Jacob – a great man because of his connection with his son, the governor over the land – Joseph spoke to the house of Pharaoh to ask permission for something. What's going on? Joseph was Pharaoh's right-hand man.
That's a lesson for us. We must conduct ourselves humbly in the eyes of men, and indeed we must be humble before them. Our behaviour must be free from self-promotion, and it is better for us to take a lower place, even than that which we are entitled to. The high and mighty Joseph is very, very careful when it comes to something for himself. He observes the correct protocol. He does it humbly and properly, and Pharaoh agrees. In fact, though he doesn't personally attend, his main offices of state go, and it becomes more of an Egyptian party than an Israelite one.