The alternative is a terrible one. The child values his sonship above everything else.
Even when we are under chastisement, there is a right way to behave. We never, never allow ourselves to become resentful, but we strive to cooperate even with the sternest forms of chastisement. We remind ourselves of the Lord’s patience in what led up to this, and our own intransigence. We remind ourselves that ‘he hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities. For as the heaven is high above the earth, so great is his mercy toward them that fear him’ (Psalm 103:10-11). We ask God to make us submissive so that the effect of them on us is not wasted and even more severe does not follow.