The writer speaks pleadingly to them. He has had to say some hard things to them in order to be faithful to the Lord, and he knows it is necessary that they hear these things, for only the truth can restore them from the dangers that he has warned them against, but at the same time he knows the tendency of the human heart to reject what it finds distressing and that goes against its will.
What faithful instruction and correction must be spoken by pastors, and yet care they must take not to put any unnecessary impediment in the path of those who must benefit from it. Always counsel must be delivered in love and in the hope that the correction will be received and will work for the eternal good of those who hear it. The true minister is motivated by love, and if he is discerning he will see what medicine needs to be delivered to the soul. He will be free from any trace of desire to dominate or bully those under his care, and will instead do everything possible to make his instruction palatable to them. Like a mother who encourages her child to swallow disagreeable tasting medicine he will urge that the church bear patiently with the word of exhortation. He cannot forsake the charge given him by the Lord.