Talking not to the three comforters but to the Lord himself, Job asks again for what he regards as essential if he was to have an audience with God: a pledge from God that he will not use his infinite power to overwhelm Job, but will give him an opportunity to express his side of the case. Barnes suggests that the words ‘lay down now’ may refer to a custom associated with making a pledge, which we are now ignorant of.
Looking at the chapter as a whole we see just on an orgy of self-destruction. Nobody can be trusted. He feels that no one will deal straight with him. We too can become preoccupied with ourselves. There was a time you could visit Job and he lifted your spirits, but now he is closed in on himself. When despair is upon us, it is as if gloom must descend on all around us. The world out there does not matter. You think the whole world revolves around you as if nothing matters: the cause of Christ, the winning of lost souls, the state of the church. As an unbeliever would say, ‘You seem to think the world should break its heart for you.’ We must take hold of each irrational thought, and not let it go round and round in our heads. Treat them like the gossips that Spurgeon dealt with; don’t let them go on and on but spend an hour or so writing them down and then turn your mind to more encouraging things. The believer has one who is absolutely true to all his promises. Also many men, other believers, will be very honest, true, genuine.
The KJV renders the verb in the first phrase of verse 5 as ‘speaketh flattery’, but others see a reference to one who betrays his friend to the plunderer. Barnes prefers this because the word means ‘smoothness’ and is used of smooth stones, that is, stones used to cast lots to divide the spoil. He suggests that here it is synonymous with plunder and that Job is saying that the friends acted as those who betrayed the residence of their friend to robbers, that they might share in the plunder. Job is then arguing that in falsely taking God’s side they have betrayed the truth in the interests of defending their own erroneous theology. They know, he implies, that there is more to his case than they are. They have chosen to take the easy way out and to assume that he is guilty of secret sin and that God is therefore angry with him. In doing this, they are like those who betray a friend to get their hands on his goods. Who will sell his friend for money? Job feels his friends have never been straight with him. They were friendly previously, but now he is down they show their true colours.
Does God really judge the children of the wicked for the sins of their parents? Not for their parents’ sins, but for their own sins. However for the sake of the parents, he withholds his restraint on the children and allows them to follow their evil inclinations which inevitably lead them into wickedness which he will then punish, ‘visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me’ (Exodus 20:5).