Job expresses the great need we all have for comfort from one another when we are in deep trials, but this he is being denied. Pity and kindness ought to be shown by his friend.
Much of his difficulty arose from fact he was expecting comfort from the wrong source. He knew they were not converted and yet when they came he was uplifted. It is possible for believers to lean on worldly people and try to get a lift from them, or to unburden themselves to them about things they can’t possibly understand. Job had laid a wrong foundation for this hour of need. We may turn to unspiritual rather than spiritual friends when we are down.
In addition, although we are not forbidden to obtain comfort from earthly friends, Job seems to have been relying too heavily on them. We know that the Lord will never forsake us, so why don’t we rely chiefly on him. It is true that part of his blessing comes through our earthly believing friends, but their sympathy cannot reach into the deepest recesses of our heart. Job had clearly put much hope in his friends’ sympathy and understanding, and they have greatly disappointed him.