Job insists that he is not unwilling to be corrected if others can really show him his faults. Right words and honest counsel and insight into the behaviour and the sins of others is something to be valued highly.
Job’s weaknesses would not have been known before the troubles. It was not as if troubles came because of them. It is the same with us: how we can give way under pressure, and our faith is found to be weak! Job lost hold of the sovereign plan and purpose of God.
We say, ‘If only I knew what was coming next! I am entitled to know. I can’t be expected to go on walking in darkness.’ Some guidance books speak as if we can be expected to know everything that will happen to us. Job was a philosopher, poet, businessman, planner, and so he does not like to be in the dark. If he can’t get an answer from God, he compromises himself, even turning to his unsaved friends. He criticises the God about whom he has been witnessing to them for years.
We see how useless to true believers is the counsel of those who claim to know God, but have never understood the Bible’s scheme of salvation. What can they say to us of any real substance when they have not found the Lord themselves? Any real help we are to receive from others starts with an understanding of free salvation through faith in Christ alone, for without they are like blind men offering to guide us. How can those who are outside the kingdom give real help and advice to those who are inside the kingdom? If you make unbelievers your closest friends, sooner or later they will turn on you.
We see that the child of God instinctively discerns false counsel when it is given him. This is true even though he may have fallen, and be suffering on account of his own foolishness and sin. Christ says, ‘My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me’, and ‘a stranger will they not follow, but will flee from him: for they know not the voice of strangers’ (John 10:17, 5). There is real wisdom required on the part of those who take it upon themselves to counsel others, but wisdom begins with conversion. Without this they have nothing of value to say.
Was Job a little spoilt by his former wealth and success? We are all rather spoilt. So many problems we run into derive from this. How often parental spoiling of a child plays such a part in this. Don’t spoil your children, because even if they are converted, their biggest problems may be the legacy of parental spoiling.