But he refuses her request, and explains why. He speaks such tender words of admonition to her, ‘Martha, Martha …’ It is an endearing way that he speaks to her, full of kindness and wanting the best for her, but nevertheless having something very serious to say to her.
How much easier it is to accept a correction given in love! A child trusts a mother to probe a wound to remove some foreign body. A Christian will accept from a friend very personal admonition that he will not accept from a stranger. This kindly form of address told Martha that what the Lord was about to say to her came from one who truly loved her and was working entirely for her good and who truly sympathised with her and wanted the best for her. That is like something sweet to help the medicine go down. The Lord was never unnecessarily heavy handed in his approach, but he took circumstances perfectly into account, and according to the seriousness of the issue, he made it as easy as he could for people to correct their wrong ways.