(Synoptics: Luke 14:7-14)It is the same occasion, and Christ is still speaking as a guest in a chief Pharisee’s house. The Lord had previously been invited into another Pharisee’s house as a guest (Luke 11:37), and then too he spoke as no guest would normally speak, but with an honesty and a directness which shocked those present.
Christ’s parable was about exactly the same thing happening, but at a wedding feast. At a wedding supper, the same kind of system was followed. The difference was that at a wedding, the seating arrangement was much more seriously regulated. You could abuse a formal dinner, but you couldn't get away with that at a wedding feast. Somebody more important than you may have been invited, somebody higher up the social scale, somebody who is your senior, and you will be ashamed when you are told to take a less significant place at the table.
The Lord turns what he has seen to account, as though to say to them, ‘It is the same in your relationship with God.’ This is a parable about life; it’s not just moral instruction, though it would be perfectly good for moral instruction. It's not just a little story which says, ‘Be humble; wait until you're promoted. Don't promote yourself, don't brag about yourself, don't advance yourself in all the affairs of life.’ Of course, that is right, and it could be used to teach that, but it means more than that. A parable is a lesson about heavenly and spiritual things, about how God works towards men, how God saves us or condemns us.
Human nature is so predictable. We are so self-seeking by nature; we are so presumptuous; we think so well of ourselves. The greatest man in Jerusalem at that time – of course he was the greatest man, because he was the incarnate Son of God, who took human personality and walked on earth – was really a lowly person in demeanour. He was the most powerful one, the sinless one, the greatest teacher, but they were so prejudiced against him that they wouldn't give him any honour at all. They wanted prestige for themselves, and they didn't want Jesus Christ to be recognized. We too do the same with Jesus Christ before we are converted. To whom do you extend honour, who do you admire? Before we are converted, the answer is, just about anybody but him. How foolish we are! The one who created us, the one who will one day be our judge, the one who came from heaven to suffer and to die in indescribable agony to bear the punishment of sin for those who believe in him. Yet we don't think anything of him.