The word translated ‘offences’ is the Greek meaning causes of stumbling or stumblingblocks, and originally referred to a stick to which bait was attached, which acted as the trigger for a trap of a snare. Verse 2 confirms this with the warning not to cause one of these little ones to stumble.
If we can borrow from these verses, they also apply to people who counsel other people too harshly. Sometimes you get it in churches. One pastor said some years ago, every church has its temple police. They are never appointed: they are always unofficial. There are always one or two people who seem to take it upon themselves to pounce on seekers or younger believers and straighten them out, put them right, people who try to rebuild them in their attitudes in five minutes flat with great force. Of course it should not be done like that. That is to put a stumbling block in the way of another. As a result some people have been very hurt and very put off, people, for instance, finding their way into the doctrines of grace. Some ‘expert’ has come and crushed them, putting them right without any gentleness, without any care, without any time to think. Inappropriate or misapplied personal counsel, personal admonition, can cause great trouble. It can do more harm than good. We must be careful and gentle and give time, especially, for instance, if somebody is in trouble, or somebody has sinned. It's got to be very wisely, very carefully done. Personal admonition is not carried out for our satisfaction. It's not to square the record. It's not a kind of minor act of vengeance. Whatever we do, are we qualified by having the right spirit? Do we have a forgiving spirit, a spirit that considers ourselves first, and therefore, are we qualified to bring the reproof or the counsel?