The widow faces an initial refusal: the judge is true to his reputation, and refuses to consider her case. Why should he take any notice of this widow? What can she do to make life difficult for him if he does not answer her? ‘He would not for a while.
Can we wear God down with our continual coming to him, with our repeated supplications? Can we play upon his irritation about being inconvenienced at our repeated petitions for the same thing? Of course not, God is not worn down by the requests of his children. He does not decline to answer us because of anything like what is in the heart of this judge. Rather, the contrary. He delights to supply our needs, to bring us relief, and feels deeply for our sufferings, especially when that suffering results from love for God and loyalty to the gospel. But he works on a timescale which is greater than our immediate concern, and he has purposes that are too lofty for us to understand, and what we define as our good may be overridden by what he sees is better.
Christ takes us into the mind of the unjust judge. Why? Because we are being led to think about the thoughts of God when we come to him, which are so different by comparison. What was in the mind of the woman and how did she view the unjust judge? She knew his reputation; she knew he would be reluctant to hear her, but she hoped that eventually he would yield. She did not know precisely when that would happen, so she must keep on coming to him. If we pray to God for something which we believe is according to his will, and when in general the saints pray for relief from this present evil world and from the devil, they must leave the timing of God’s answer to him. And yet they have hope, not because they think they can wear him down, but because they believe he is truly their loving heavenly Father.