John the Baptist’s head was brought on this tray or platter, and given to the fifteen-year-old girl, and she gave it to her mother. To gloat over: what a woman! Freshly executed: to gloat over! Frighteningly, like mother, like daughter.
Many years ago there was a church outing. There was a great crowd of people, and a young woman in her early twenties was offended by something, by someone – something not very great – and in public she lost her temper. So loudly, she put on such an exhibition, completely and utterly losing control of herself, and behaved like a mad woman, a crazy woman. It was terrible! One felt so sorry for her. How would she ever get over this? She would want to hide her head in shame. Actually that never happened. Then afterwards we found that her mum was just the same. Surprise, surprise! Learned behaviour. Like mother, like daughter. How do we live?
Do you love your children? Do you really love them? Then the best way to show that love is how you behave at home: how much self-control you have, and kindness and gentleness. Children are children. Sometimes you have got to be very, very firm in the wisest way you can be, but you are never spiteful, unpleasant, losing your temper, becoming angry, because you have always got in mind – and this is only one among many lessons – like parent, like child. That is how it so often is. If you love your children, you want to win them, you want to train them by your own example, and your own behaviour.