At this point the parable begins to change into the reality which it represents: the state of the kingdom of God at the time of the second coming. The language begins to move away from the homely picture of an ancient marriage feast in Palestine and to be transformed into something much more solemn and final.
For him to know us is to know us as his chosen ones, those to whom he is committed forever, those whom he will go to hell in order to deliver. This is more than just, ‘You have been foolishly preoccupied with this world’s pleasures and have not given due time to God’, nor is it, ‘You have failed to repent soon enough and have come to me for salvation too late.’ This is telling the lost, to their horror, that there is a far more basic reason why they have not come to him; they have been passed over by God from all eternity. Christ has never known them, in the sense that from all eternity they were never those who were loved by him. This will be the greatest source of distress to the lost on that day, that though they are wholly responsible for their condemnation and final eternal doom, God’s secret purpose behind all the events of their lives never intended that they should enter that door into the marriage supper of the Lamb. With these words the noose that leads them to eternal destruction will have tightened and they will be led away.