Several times the Lord introduces his thinking with the words, ‘Ye have heard that it hath been said’, referring to the misquotations and the omissions of the Rabbis, but now he tells them something which they were not teaching at all; they had left this out completely and that was tragic. It is another example of denying self, of behaving graciously to others in a very practical way, in a way that may cost us something in the material realm.
To what extent do we respond? Are we to give without limit? No, other Scriptures condition our giving. Even God does not give to everyone who asks without consideration of why they ask, the spirit in which they ask. James warns believers, ‘Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts’ (James 4:3). The Lord says be careful how you pray because if you pray for things that you do not need merely to consume them upon them on your lusts, merely to enjoy luxury and pleasure and things for yourself, even the Lord will withhold any blessing from you. So if it is the Lord’s standards, it is our standard. We too should not respond to those who ask in the wrong spirit. Do you give to one who wants to support some wrong doing, or because of disorganised circumstances? You may give the first time, but not if there is no intention of changing the lifestyle. I remember a family in need who came again and again for help. Both parents were chain smokers. It was an expensive habit, but they had no intention of giving it up. We have to look behind the need. We show compassion, yes, but we need to be careful. I have seen people engaging in virtual fraud. We don’t stretch giving to a limit.
Do not go to your Christian friend because you need a new car and say, under the law of Christ I ask you to lend me the money. Of course it is not about that. This is about poverty and need and suffering and difficulty, and in such circumstances Christians must freely open their hearts and hands to one another. We should be those that others know they can come to for help. We work and earn a wage partly to feed and clothe ourselves, but we also do it to have something to give to others in need. If we have more than some, then it is an opportunity for us to pass on God’s gifts to the needy.