Christ tells us here – what authority he speaks with, that he can give such an answer! – that the Lord regards this as a worthless performance, which gives away the fact that those who pray in this way are strangers to his grace. It is like a king who hates flattery and insincerity, approached by an official who believes that the best way to get an answer is to adopt a fawning and obsequious manner.
This is a most comforting word for believers. Our Father in heaven knows our needs and this together with his love for us assures us that we can appeal to a care that already exists in his heart. A father already has an interest in the good of his child before the child asks for anything, and yet a father loves to hear the child engage with him, and recognise that he is the source of all of the child’s good. How easy it is to persuade a father to do good to a child, when the father is disposed to do this even without asking.
By prayer God makes us co-workers with himself in the unfolding of his eternal plan. But if that plan cannot be altered and is determined from eternity past, how can prayer offered within time, have any influence on how his plan unfolds? Isn’t prayer about persuading God do change his mind? How can what comes afterwards, affect what happened before, in eternity past? Is prayer a real exercise or just an illusion? Do we have any real influence on God at all? There are many mysteries that are not revealed concerning the relationship between God’s eternal plan and our free will, but God assures us that he does hear us, and Scripture teaches many times the difference prayer makes. We resolve this puzzle by realising that our prayers having been predestined as the means by which his plan comes to pass. They too are part of that plan. Within that plan there is a link between our prayer and the outcome. He takes our prayers into account. If we do not pray, then certain things will not come to pass. We therefore take advantage of our freedom to pray and make real requests to our Father in heaven who is sympathetic to our needs. It is his desire that our prayers too occupy this crucial role and he does this in order to draw out our earnestness. Which comes first: our asking or his providing? No doubt, his providing, nevertheless he wishes to teach us to ask and so makes our asking a condition of his providing.