Christ has taught us what to pray, now he teaches us how to pray, multiplying together encouragements to take advantage of our bountiful, generous, and approachable heavenly Father. It must have been so startlingly refreshing to hear these words spoken on that mountain top.
Why does Christ use three different terms? Ask brings out the spirit in which we pray. The one we come to a superior. We cannot bounce into his presence: we would be destroyed by his holiness. I ask and do not demand or claim. I recognise his right to give or not give. Ask also acknowledges I do not deserve his response. We learn this at the time of salvation. ‘Lord, give me salvation freely. I am utterly unworthy of your favour.’ By asking you admit you haven’t got it. You need it; if you die without it you will perish. ‘I see that all my life has been away from the Lord.’ Seek implies persistence, diligence, refusal to give up until you find. That does not mean that it is hard to find, but it must be something we do with all our being. Seek also implies that we are looking for something that happens to exist. If I have lost something, I look for it knowing that it that it is really there. We seek for the God who is there, for the faith of the Bible which is true. If you seek in the right way, you will find. Knock, expecting door to swing open, tells us of the immediacy of prayer. Seeking might suggest this must be a prolonged search, but ‘knock’ tells me the door can open in an instant. Knock says I am outside, and I need to come in. Acknowledge you are lost, that you do not know God, and as soon as you are sincere, God will open the door. If you visit a friend and you knock at his door, it is not going to be opened four hours later. He will he let you in. Christ would never give invitation if he did not mean to respond.
What kind of God must we believe in? A God who can hear. If you hold some pantheistic notion of an impersonal God, you cannot pray. The God in whose image we are made an intelligent God with concerns and feelings, a relational God who relates to us, a powerful God. What is the point of asking if he able to answer? The things that we need to ask for are infinitely beyond human power to grant. You must believe in the benevolent God. There are many on earth you cannot ask. They don’t want to listen to you. He must be a kind God, who will listen and sympathise with us. He is an infinite and spiritual being. He is in every place at once. He is perfectly righteous and holy, yes, but that produces fear. I am far from being pleasing to him. And yet he is also a merciful God. His great mercy leads to provide a way of redemption. We can approach him. We must trust in him. He is holy, but he is also forgiving. When you pray, ask the God who is there. You cannot see him, but you can do justice to him in your mind. If you approach a great one in this world, you do not say, ‘Get me this’, without even looking at them. It is already half in your heart to pray like that. You don’t demand; you are not arrogant, but quiet. You have stolen your life. Say, ‘Forgive me.’ Ask but realise you are owed nothing.
What good new it is to hear these words when we consider the human condition and what man has done with God’s commandments. He has rejected God’s rule over him and broken his laws, taxed his patience with disobedience. How can he expect any favour to be shown him? There is a pity in the heart of God that means he is moved by what we ask.