‘To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger’ – that is the adulteress or the prostitute, ‘which flattereth with her words’. Before we proceed to expound these verses and say, you must be very careful to avoid adulteresses and prostitutes, we remember that that does not exhaust the meaning of the passage, because this is a book of parables and similes.
And do not forget, this chapter begins with the words ‘My son’, and Solomon the king, in this portion, is particularly addressing young people, and warning of the fact that life is a snare, not just concerning adultery, but that is the way sin always works, and we have considered these things. The flattery of the adulteress – she works upon the pride of her victim, and flatters, and that is what the world does to us. We have already seen this in a previous chapter. When the world says, ‘Come, join us’, it flatters us. ‘We need you, we want you, you are a good person, a great person, we will respect you, we will admire you.’ And there is the draw of the world as it draws us away from God; it does so by flattery, it gets at our feelings, it makes us feel wanted. We are going to be admired, we are going to be accepted, we are going to be part of something. This is all here, the technique and the method of the adulteress, as she goes about her seduction, is a picture of how this world, and all its teaching, and all its attractions, cunningly draws us by capturing the heart and flattering us.