Again and again we see the elegance of these proverbs. The reader is required to do some work to understand them.
How sad that a fool only responds to pain. What a tragedy that the only way to stop him going into the fire is to subject him to another pain. You are a fool because when God warns you, you will not listen. The only way God can help you is perhaps by bringing tragedy into your life, so you wake up the fact that you need him.
It is sad when a Christian with potential goes off in the wrong direction to a false church where they will not be taught and trained to serve the Lord. Let us get discernment and not just say, I want to go and to do what pleases me and not to study but be affected by all the problems of the age. There are those who are keen believers, but they are carried away to one thing or another, turned aside and distracted. God won’t give such responsibility for they will never stick to their task.