This observation is an engine for kindness, for deepening friendship, and for valuing what has lasting benefit in life. Sweeter far is friendship and love between loyal friends than any material gift we may receive, and when friendship includes the imparting of wise counsel it is something that comes down from above.
Let the believer not turn to those who are unable to help for advice and support. It is unwise for the believer to weep on the shoulder of the unbeliever, for what can a non-Christian understand about the trials of the Christian, and what possible help can they give when they do not know God themselves. All our comfort comes from the Lord, and though there may be such a thing a human sympathy, the unbeliever is out of their depth when it comes to giving help regarding the world to come. Yes, we are comforted by someone who cares about our earthly situation and who has advice that is greater than our problem. But if he is a wise counsellor, he himself looks to God for every answer and what he gives us not his own counsel but the counsel he has received from the Lord. Both of us are living in the flesh, but our counsellor has found help greater than anything that man can give and he is able to pass on this help to us. In this case the knowledge that we do not face life alone is a great comfort.