What an extraordinary attitude these words reveal! The neighbour has now come to you, and said could you help me with such and such a thing, and you have plenty of it right there in the cupboard, but there is something so much the matter with you, it is so hard for you to give, you are so resentful and so defiant and so surly that you say, ‘Come back tomorrow.’ You have it there, but you have got to make it difficult for him, you have got to make it hard for him.