Here you can see that this is a parable, that Solomon in the first person, is projecting himself into his parable, and speaking as the earthly father, because this was not actually true of him literally. Solomon was not an only son of course.
Anybody who wants to develop wisdom must prepare in this way. You cannot be fickle and changeable and have wisdom. The two things are mutually exclusive: they won't mix; it can’t be done. Now if I look at myself and I say, 'Well, I am a changeable person, I am a fickle person. I like to change my views every five minutes; I like to change my opinions every six months; I am not the same person in many respects that I was six months ago, a year ago. If I am a fickle, changeable person – I don't like remembering things and storing them in my mind, I like to play each day as it comes by ear – I can never have wisdom because wisdom and fickleness, shallowness, changeability: they just won't go together. Wisdom must have a home which isn't having the furniture moved around every five minutes. Wisdom won't live in such a mind, such a home. Wisdom must have stability; you must be someone who has a cupboard for everything. The person who can receive wisdom is a stable person, a person who does not change readily, a person who is a creature of pattern and habit and order and form. This is the word of God, this is not my judgement. Wisdom is something which doesn't change from generation to generation.