In this chapter the apostle Paul will run through five different categories of believer, and the first of those is that of the aged men. But he begins with Titus himself.
I was speaking to a pastor, and he had heard that I had had a gout attack, so he proceeded to tell me one or two tragic stories about people he knew of who had had gout attacks. In one case it wasn't gout at all; it was sepsis and the man almost died. In another case, it was some other terrible thing. Well, I didn't mind, but we should listen to ourselves. Maybe he should have said to himself, ‘I’m a pastor. Is this an appropriate thing to say? My mind went back thirty years to the same brother thirty years ago when, it so happened, I was due to have a procedure on something else. And he said to me, ‘Oh, I wouldn’t like that to happen to me’, and he started to tell me – he had a bit of a medical background – all the lurid possibilities. And I thought, have you spent the last thirty years frightening the life out of people? We should listen to ourselves, preferably before we speak. What am I going to say? Is it appropriate? Is it really promoting faith in God? Is it good? Is it wholesome? If it isn't particularly spiritual, is it at least wholesome? So it's not just Titus and pastors, but everybody. We have to listen to ourselves.
There was a lady in the church who was an arch grumbler, and she could always be counted upon to grumble. If there was a tea or something and she was on a table, the people at that table – they may be new comers; they may be guests – were regaled to grumbles. But one day she came to complain about somebody who was a grumbler, and the first thought that comes into one's mind is, ‘Have you ever heard yourself?’ We need to listen to ourselves, and our characteristic responses and speech. ‘Speak thou the things which [agree with] sound doctrine.’